I have an active life and I have limited times to rp, so when I’m available, I like to make use of the most of my time. I play and work all day, so when night rolls around, I pass out. I have to be up early the next day.
My partner admits to living on the internet. That’s fine with me as long as they’re happy. It would be really great for keeping in touch and rping. The problem is that they’re up all night and sleep through most of the next day. Then we never meet up because I’m not nocturnal, and by the time they’re up, I’m busy or working.
It wasn’t always like this. They had regular habits before but then changed. :(
This is my first partner in my same time zone. I got all excited because I thought it would be GREAT but then, based on their sleep patterns, they’re even less available than my past partners who were hours ahead.
I’d like to find another partner but then they would get upset, but what else can I do? I want to RP but I can’t spent all night awake.
This is a problem when you’re in an uncommon time zone, I only have one partner in my time zone and we both stay up most of the night because (among a number of other reasons) that’s when the people on the other side of the Atlantic are awake!
I would suggest to the OP to find more partners, including some who can be more adjustable, you don’t have to be limited to just one partner after all- and also try RPing in a way that doesn’t require you guys to be online at the same time (tumblr RP, email etc). I don’t know the details of your situation but those seem like reasonable solutions.